Yes im telling people to blame themselves as I do the samething to myself. It has been a great help to me so I naturally want to share it with others. Being new to the game is not a excuse to be playing poorly. You can learn the same things as a master starting day one. Thats the diffrence between a good player and a poor player. The willingness to learn new things and not oppose change. You have zero power over devs and your team but you have complete control over yourself. Would you rather push the mountain you can move or the one that you cant?